You Can Have A Healthy Relationship Whether You Are Married Or Single.

Judith A. Swack • January 8, 2024

“Healthy relationships are happy relationships.” Judith A. Swack, Ph.D.

What is marriage? At its best it is a lifetime together, a partnership with someone you like, respect, and love. You share resources and use your differences to complement each other by sharing your strengths. This creates a synergy that stimulates continuous growth, and evolution. In a healthy marriage you:

  • Take care of each other, and do what you can to make each other happy. In other words it makes you feel happy when the other person is happy
  • Are nice to each other. Knowing your partner’s sore spots, you are gentle with them in those areas and you encourage them to get help if they need it
  • Have regular sex, and are willing to do whatever you can to preserve that form of closeness. This includes dealing with the natural physical problems of aging and age-related health problems
  • Are each better together than you are apart


Whether you’re single or in a long-term, committed relationship or marriage HBLU ™ can help you create the healthy, happy partnership you want by:


  • Discovering what type of relationship you are ready for.
  • Helping you release yourself from unhealthy relationships or relationships that aren’t going anywhere.
  • Clearing dysfunctional family patterns so that you don’t unconsciously reproduce them in your current relationship.
  • Healing trauma from divorce, death, betrayal, abandonment, etc. so that you can start fresh. Clearing distorted ideas, assumptions, limiting beliefs, and negative feelings about men, women, gender roles, relationships, marriage, etc.
  • Helping you understand and appreciate each other’s Enneagram personality type so that you can complement each other.
  • Teaching you state of the art communication skills.
  • Helping you discover the surprisingly simple ways to make each other feel loved.


With HBLU ™ you work together to create a unique partnership that is ideal for both of you. We’ve helped people in their twenties, we’ve helped people in their seventies. Whether it’s your first or your fifth, HBLU ™ helps people get and stay happily married.


“Healthy relationships are happy relationships.” Judith A. Swack, Ph.D.

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